Just Came Across The Most Unsettling List From A Year Ago
This is regarding a guy who has since proved himself ineffectual. However at the time, I thought making a list (à la Ross from Friends when choosing between Rachel and Julie) would simplify matters. I’m only posting the list I wrote about the individual who was not chosen.
- French and British
- Really hot
- Challenges my worldview
- A beautiful mess
- Absolutely hilarious
- Easy to talk to, good conversationalist
- Hard to read
- Stresses me out
- Quite neurotic and potentially emotionally unstable
- Unmotivated career-wise
- Makes me feel like i’m walking on eggshells
- Intensely French ~ slight cultural barrier
I’m sorry, but how do some of those not stand out as immediate red flags to any sane person? No brainer. Clearly a lot has changed in a year, but it is still hard to believe I was that pathetic and put myself through all that unnecessary grief.